Sometimes I worry about the words I write…not so much what other people think of them, although that happens sometimes.
I mostly worry about them when I’m writing about someone…because I want my words to give a voice and a true reflection of what that person means to me.
Or, to us.
So today I’m pulling out the tissues…just because I know I’m going to need them…and telling you a story.
One that’s worth telling.
It’s about a friend.
There are a lot of titles that this picture could have.
Mae’s First Day of School.
Maelie and Her Buddy From Across the Street Showing Off Their New Backpacks.
Two Days Before Brenton Left For College.
All of the above…
When we moved here three years ago, God knew what He was doing.
We didn’t.
We didn’t know north from south (I still don’t), left from right (especially when driving), or where to even begin looking for a house in this brand new state. (And, honestly, one I’d never imagined living in.)
Almost by accident, we stumbled on a Craigslist ad for a two-story, blue house in C’ville.
I actually told my husband I wasn’t interested in seeing it.
Thankfully, he insisted we look anyway.
Long story short, we moved in six days later…into a house in a neighborhood and town where we knew not a soul…
But we hoped it would become home, and it did.
And there are so many aspects that have helped make this place home, but today, this is about some special friends.
You see, there’s a family across the street…and it didn’t take long for us to connect with them. (Potentially because we always needed help moving the furniture we were buying? 😉 Kidding, kidding…)
No, we connected with Jonny, Kris, and their son, Brenton, within the first few weeks…and soon they weren’t just our neighbors; they had become our friends.
At the time, Brenton was fifteen and just a cool, high school sophomore. (No sarcasm here…we think he was pretty cool. :)) We’d see him here or there, and he would stop to talk to us sometimes.
He didn’t really connect with Maelie at the beginning, but that’s not a surprise. I don’t know many fifteen year old boys who make it a point to sit down on the floor and try to entertain a baby girl.
But around the time Mae turned one, Brenton started talking to her and playing with her more. One night his family came over for dinner, and she sat on his lap for a long time.
It wasn’t long before she was saying his name.
And a few months later, we had her bedroom windows open, which faced their house. She saw him come home from work and yelled as he was getting out of his car.
Brenton!
To her surprise?
Maelie!
Brenton!
Maelie!
It continued back and forth as he stood on their front porch and she pressed her nose against the screen in her window.
And that’s what continued for the next two years…little moments like that.
He’d come over and see her when she was playing outside.
Once they “shoveled” the sidewalk together.
She pushed him on the swing (really) the day he graduated from high school.
Little moments, nothing huge…but things that made an impact.
It’s no secret that Brenton became someone that Maelie really loves…and someone we love, too.
He was a high school student, busy with homework and friends and music, work and college searches. He didn’t have to take the time for a little girl…and honestly, no one would have blamed him if he didn’t.
But he did.
And he made a difference in her life…and ours, too.
This picture was taken last week, on Mae’s first day of PK3 and two days before Brenton left for college.
The two mamas behind their iPhones were both a little weepy for similar, but at the same time different, reasons…because seasons change.
Just like it was time for Mae to begin school (even if it’s just a few hours a week), it was time for Brenton to go off to college.
We said goodbye to him the next day, and the day after that, he left.
Mae is little and she doesn’t understand goodbyes yet…but I know she will miss him.
In fact, just a week ago, she looked at me. Mommy? Brenton’s my hero. And I think there’s some truth to that statement that she might not understand just yet.
Today I tear up when I look at this picture, but I know it’s one we’ll keep forever.
Thank you, Brenton, for taking the time to be part of Maelie’s life…it means more to us than you will ever know.
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It’s Tuesday and time for one of my favorite link ups over at my friend, Crystal’s space.
Social media and online relationships can make us feel like everyone else has it all together. We’re edited, proof-read, Pinterest-perfect versions of ourselves (or so some might think!) when – in reality? There is an unfinished pile of laundry around the corner. That cute toddler smiling for the camera just had a massive meltdown seconds ago. That yummy breakfast-for-dinner you just showed us on Instagram? It’s because the cat licked the chicken that was supposed to be for dinner.
“Behind the Scenes” is a fun link up where we show those photos – but tell the real story behind them. The sneak peek behind the scenes, a look past the edges of the photo to the real life behind it.
If you’ve got some time today, hop over for the sweet and funny, the silly and sappy, and sometimes the tear-jerky stories that happen behind the camera lens. They’re told by some of my favorite writers and friends…and their words will make your day. 
