Living Love

So I’ll be the first to admit that the blog has been a little dry the past few weeks.

Like I said before, I’m not exactly uninspired…just lacking good sentence structure, maybe

? 😉

Or the emotional ability to be transparent.

It’ s been an overwhelming week.

Exactly one week ago, we were facing a very busy eight days before leaving for vacation and talking about how much time we’d need to spend on the fence to get it finished before we go. (This was to make life easier for the people taking care of our dogs. Two crazy dogs + no fence = no fun for anyone.)

Then? Less than an hour into the project…

It snapped. (Literally.)

On the second fence post hole, which my husband was using a power auger to dig, he hit a rock, it jerked, and broke his wrist. Tobin actually finished the holes and did some more work on Sunday, too, but by Sunday night, we knew that he needed x-rays.

Monday morning it was confirmed that his wrist was broken, and we spent that day wondering how on earth this fence was going to be finished in time.

That’s when Jonny, our friend and neighbor, told him not to worry…that the fence would get done.

During the past several days, Jonny and his son have spent countless hours at our house, finishing the fence this afternoon.

And I have to admit to you that I had a hard time accepting this kind of generosity at first…how on earth do you return this kind of love

?

Because that’s what it is, friends…LOVE.

I have been so challenged this week by that word and all it carries with it.

Because Love

is a Verb.

And this week we’ve seen that Love.

Living Love.

It’s so, so easy…to say it, to believe it…

But to actually demonstrate it?

Well, when it’s shown…it reflects Christ.

And that’s what we’ve seen this week.

.. through our dear friends.

Some people have questioned the changes in our lives this past year…including joining a Lutheran church. But as we returned from Indonesia last year and began searching for a new church, we pretty much threw out denomination as a deciding factor.

The two deciding points for us were that the church lives the Bible and that we see the love of Christ in the people of our church…not in the words they say but through their actions.

It’s humbling; at times, it’s difficult to grasp; but it’s genuine.

And we’re learning to accept it…as a gift from people who love us, knowing that it’s not possible to repay. Just to love back.

And if this lesson in love weren’t enough, yesterday I came home to see that our yard had been cleaned up. (We have a dozen raccoons living in our trees who had made quite the mess.) I found out later that our sweet neighbors, who are in their 80’s, had come over that morning while Mae and I were gone and cleaned up the yard.

Five big lawn bags worth.

Living Love again.

I can’t look at my yard right now without tears filling my eyes.

Because…we’re loved. Not just by our friends and neighbors but by

our Father.

The One Who sent His Son to live out Love on this earth and give us that perfect example.

Exactly what we’ve seen this week.

I know I have a long way to go, but if there’s one thing I want for myself, for my husband, for my daughter…it’s the capacity to Love just as we’ve seen this week.

To Live Love.

Our clean yard.

:)

Jonny working on the fence and helping Mae put her handprint in cement. :)

What about you

? How have you seen living love in your life?

Sig

Maelie Loves Her Slide

Here is the super-cute, totally-the-best-post-ever video Tobin prom

ised yesterday.

Thanks also to those of you who said a little prayer for me… feeling much,

much better.

:)

Now, on to the REAL star of the blog

today.

Sig

Sick Day

This isn’t Mel. Mel is sick, so I’m mandating a blogging-free day for her.

Instead you get a gimpy typer who keeps putting extra spaces in things because my thumb doesn’t move.

A few happenings from the last few days:

I think that’s the most typing I’m up for tonight.

Maybe tomorrow we’ll have the video of Maelie going down her slide all by herself. Have a good night, and thanks for reading the best post ever.

:)

Sig

Little Blessings (Pt. 7)

:) Getting to sit down for the first time since noon.

(It’s almost 10 p.m.)

:) Iced coffee. Even better when it’s free.

:) My hubby rockin’ a bl

ack cast almost to his elbow.

It is as cool-looking as cast can be.

:) A faithful dog named Andre who is sitting by me,

giving me his sweet, puppy smile.

Oh, wait. I have a sandwich.

That’s why he’s sitting by me.

😉

:) Starting to feel a little better? This cold is kicking my butt.

:) Awesome friends and neighbors who are going way above and beyond friendship right now to help us finish the fence before we leave for vacation.

We love them and are so, so thankful for them.

(This blessing isn’t little. At all.)

:) Netflix streaming. Maelie loves Blues Clues. :)

:) Watching my daughter climb steps and go down a “big” slide by herself at the zoo today.

:) One of the best weekends I’ve ever had. Really. Even though Tob broke his hand. (It probably wasn’t his best weekend, though!)

:) Loving life.

Sig

Ummm…

On the way ho me,

I was trying to come up with a way to talk Tobin into blogging for me.

It’s time for a guest post, yeah

? :)

Then my dreams were completely squashed when I remembered that he can’t type.

So here I sit, trying to think of something interesting

I can possibly tell you that you will actually want to read.

Like the fact that I baked A LOT today. (I surpassed my 91 cupcake record…) What I baked is a surprise, though, so…sorry. I’ll tell ya later. :)

Or the fact that it’s 10 p.m. and I haven’t had dinner yet.

I may just skip it.

I’m so tired that I just want sleep.

Or that it’s September and almost time to put away the flip flops, and that makes me very, very sad. Almost depressed. I don’t whine about it too often, but I greatly dislike covering my toes.

Or that my daughter figured out how to use her slide tonight all by

herself. I heard it was cute, but I haven’ t seen her in ac

tion yet. Tomorrow. :)

Or that I’m really starting to look forward to vacation, minus the packing part. I always love seeing friends…it’ll be good.

Or that we have psycho raccoons living in our trees outside.

They throw acorns at us. Really.

Or that my manager at my new job swears that the place is haunted. Today I let my imagination take over and totally freaked myself out.

And I get to close two nights a week by. myself.

Ummm….

Yeah.

And with that, I think I’ve told you enough interesting facts about life.

For now. 😉

Thanks for reading.

Sig

Labor Day

It was fun…well, most of it. :)

We actually had a really wonderful weekend… which I may chat more about later this week.

But to day

actually started out with my hubby taking a (planned) trip to the ER for x-rays.

The results? A broken hand.

His right one.

(Which, by the way, has been broken since Saturday.) Not good at all. Pray for him, please…it’s Tob’s busy time at work, and he’s feeling extra pressure to be productive because we’ll be on vacati

on all next week. Right now he has a temporary cast until he goes to see an orthopedic doctor later this week…then he’ll get the real deal. There’s some concern with the particular bone that he broke, so please pray for complete healing and patience for both of us.

Definitely NOT what we

were expecting, but nothing surprises God.

Moving on from the broken hand, though, we did have a good day.

We had a kind-of-last-minute lunch with some friends down the street we hadn’t seen for awhile. It was good to catch up a bit and eat probably the best burger I’ve had in months. :)

While Maelie was napping we played a little bocce ball, and Tobin managed to beat me left handed.

Well, then. I guess we know who reigns supreme in bocce world…even with a broken hand.

We headed across the street for a cookout with some friends (including some new ones :)) and it was a lot of fun. Maelie loved being the center of attention, probably a little too much.

Great food, yummy dessert, and just good to hang out with cool people. :)

Then we came home and ended up hanging out on our lit-by-white-Christmas-lights porch with our friends/neighbors Tim and Lex. Some good chatting…and some deep conversation.

Good stuff.

It really was a wonderful day.

Feeling very,

very blessed.

:)

Sig

I Am FREE!

I am FREE

to run,
I

am FREE to dance,
I am

FREE to live for You.


I am FREE.

..I am FREE.

We sang this song at church this morning…and as we were singing it, I couldn’t help but realize how well it sums up the past year of our lives.

While we have chosen to look at the positives in the past (well, mostly ;)) Tobin and I will both admit that, at times, being a Christian felt a lot like being a slave. So many rules and do’s and don’ts…it felt like there was no freedom to be the people God created us

to be.

“For freedom in Christ has set us free; stand firm therefore, and do not submit again to a yoke of slavery.”

Galatians 5:1

“For you were called to freedom, brothers. Only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another.”

Galatians 5:13

I love these verses…THIS is exactly what I’ve been trying to figure out all year.

Christianity is about living for God in the freedom we have in Christ. The things that used to bind us DON’T anymore. We’re not held in bondage to sin any longer because of the gift of love from our Father in the form of the greatest sacrifice the world has ever seen.

Does being free mean that I can use the grace lavished on me as an excuse to do whatever I want

? No…it’s not about self, but about loving others, something my husband and I have tried to be so intentional about. We’re not there yet, but God is teaching us.

And we’re trying to learn.

Today, I am FREE…

To live for Him!

And I might just do a little dance while I live.

Sig

Crying Out to Him

Maelie’s naps have kind of been hit or miss lately.

This week was ok…she napped plenty but usually woke up once or twice, crying, and would then go back to sleep.

Today she went to sleep around 1:30 in the afternoon, and other than crying for a few minutes, was out immediately.

I figured she was so tired she’d sleep for hours.

So I was surprised when she woke up around 2:00…screaming. And it wasn’t an I-completely-protest-this-nap cry…it was an I-need-to-be-held cry.

I went up to her nursery, where I found her peeking at me over the rail of her crib, tears streaming down her cheeks, arms held out to me.

(Yes, it did melt my heart, since I know you’re all wondering!)

I picked her up, and she immediately snuggled as close to me as possible. I sat down in the chair with her and rocked her for awhile, singing a few songs, while she held me and cuddled up.

And I have to admit that as much as I was sad that she was upset, I absolutely loved that she wanted to be held and cuddled and close.

For that moment, I was it.

A few minutes later, I kissed her, put

her in her crib, and she went right back to sleep for another two hours.

(YAY!)

But as she was sleeping, I couldn’t help but think through what

had just happened and draw a parallel.

Just as Mae wanted me…and only me…I wonder how often I want my Father.

And only Him.

It is so easy to let the people in our lives be it.

To let them be the ones who listen to us when we’re hurting, laugh with us when life is just good, cry with us when it’s not. And there’s a time and a place for that…many times and places, in fact. That’s why God gave us friends.

But He desires that we treat Him just as Maelie treated me today…because He is just that.

He is It.

The One Who can comfort and love and listen and care… no matter what.

Just where I am tonight.

Sig

Thankful

Today…I’m thankful for a lot of things, but right at the top

of the list these days is my friends.

For those who are there to laugh with over silly things…just because it feels good to laugh.

For those who let me cry when I need to and don’t point out that I tend to be drama some times

.

For those I can call at really random hours just to say, “Hi.”…and that “Hi” usually turns into 20-30 minutes of much-needed chit-chatting.

For those who never change…so even if it’s been months or years, we can always pick up and start again.

For those who tell me things I need to hear even if I don’t want to hear themand tell me in a way that doesn’t crush me but makes me think.

For those who will spend an afternoon, sometimes a long one, hanging out and drinking coffee…when there are other things they could (and probably should) be doing.

For those who take the time to love my daughter and treat her like she’ s one of the coole

st little girls ever.

For those willing to share life with me…someone they may or may not have known for long.

For those willing to listen and love and accept.

For those who forgive me when I screw up big time.

(Have had a few of those lately…)

For those willing to randomly break into song with me, especially in public.

Bonus points for public.

For those who take the time to read the random, often goofy, musings of a wife and mommy who loves to write.

For those who Love.

Love you all back.

Sig

A Shoe-Loving, Purse-Toting Girl

From the time I knew I w anted

kids, I wanted a daughter.

I dreamed about having a little girl to play princess with, dress in copious amounts of pink, and someday, giggle about secrets and crushes.

And of course, a little girl who would love all things purses

and flip flops.

When I found out I was pregnant, I was actually pretty sure I was having a boy. I wasn’t sad about that

thought at all, but my heart really wanted a girl. The day we went in to find out the gender of our baby, I was so nervous to find out whether we were having a Maelie or a Finn that my blood pressure shot up.

True story. (And yes, now you know what our boy name would have been. That name is no longer on the list so I can tell you that.

:))

So when we found out that baby was a girl, besides NOT BELIEVING THE DOCTOR, I was pretty stinkin’ excited. :)

Once she was born, the dressing-her-in-pink thing could happen, and that was pretty much it…the princess stuff and the purses and flip flops would have to wait. And it’s funny…even with the pink, there was some but not really a lot.

This week, Mae made my Mama heart smile, though.

She picked up her sandals and tried to put them on her feet.

Then she spent the next several minutes going through my shoes upstairs (I DON’T have that many, for the record…) and bringing them to me so she could put them on my feet. It was too cute.

And she even started showing interest in purses (sort of) by “borrowing” someones backpack at the McD’s play place today and

toting it around like she was going to school.

Backpack, purse…they’re related, right? :)

My girl loves shoes. And she totes purses.

She is definitely my daughter.

:)

Sig